Well.. I swear.. the planets have to be out of alignment.. or I am about to lose my mind!
Well.. after.. an ok week... Not sure how I made it through, but I did..
A friend of mine calls last night and says..
Wait, let me back up!!
I wrote in my journal a month or so back.. saying my friend (Amanda) who had been married for 25 years.. is splitting up from her husband, no real information..just that he had moved out..!!
As my journal stated.. my husband was devastated (the scum bag is his best friend), I was devastated for my friend.. He was the only man she had ever been with and loved.. a real sock in the teeth!
Well, last night, I get a call from another friend of mine.. who I have known for about 15 years.. saying.. you do know who he had the affair with??? Of course, I am totally clueless.. IT IS MY SISTER-IN-LAW!!!!! MY HUSBAND'S SISTER!!!
Well... I am totally knocked off my feet.... I confronted my husband and said... WHAT THE HELL!! WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME!
Well he then proceeds to tell me that he found out only a few weeks ago.. and Amanda asked not to tell me!!!
As, you can guess... I respect my friend not telling me.. she has to be devastated.. embarassed.. overwhelmed.. hurt...etc.. etc..
Also, she knows me well enough.. I WOULD NOT take this news very well..!!!!
I am well... to say lightly ... NOT A QUIET INDIVIDUAL
BACKGROUND ON SISTER-IN-LAW.... Jezebel.. slut... money grubbing... etc...etc....
She has never worked.. she is now 40.... just had her 3rd divorce.. has 3 daughters with her 2nd husband.. who she constantly uses.. whenever she needs money....never really loved him.. just wanted security.. he let her move back in this year.. after the last husband kicked her out!
My friend Amanda has been helping her and her girls for the last 2 years.. paying for their food.. clothes.. had her stay with them over the summer.. so she could get out of her last marriage!!!
OMG.... how low and disgusting individual.. take the wife's husband.. and money!!!
She had the nerve to post on her FACEBOOK.. that she has finally met the man that loves and will take care of her girls.!!!!
I WANT TO SCREAM AT THE TOP OF THE MOUNTAIN!!! AS WELL AS SMASH HER FACE IN!!!!!
I know her all too well.. I have known her for 24 years.... In 3 months... she will have a depression and have affairs and find someone else...
She has slept with so many men.. I am surprised she doesn't have multiple VD!!!
Bad part of all this crap..... My husbands... maybe ex-husband... who knows when that is going to happen.. BEST FRIEND... will be my boys new step UNCLE?????!! OMG!!! I am just beside myself..
But, not to worry about me.. I am about to soak in a hot tub.. relax... take multiple deep breaths... and draw... draw... draw......!!
wow... just to write this down... helps me immensely!!!!!
Now he is stalking me on Facebook... saying.
"If you had spoken to amanda or I or tiffany before you started your gossip bs it would be different... but no go ahead spread your shit.. it will come back around to you.. I bet you wont have as much glee when you are the subject.."
He fails to mention.. they wouldn't talk to me about anything in the last 2 months.. saying.. they didn't want to .. .... I didn't go out of my way to find out this information!! Folks called me to tell me.... I NEVER asked.. plus, I confirmed it with my husband.. and he said it was true...
Guess truth hurts!!
There isn't much he can really say about my relationship with my husband.. that I do not know.. but.. the truth will always come out!! Plus.. I am an honest person.. and an open book.. I DO NOT KEEP SECRETS!
I did post on my sister-in-laws Facebook.... "wrong, wrong, wrong!".... was I wrong to do that????. but it felt good at the time...
I have blocked them completely off Facebook...
I just pray.. he isn't stupid enough to get my kids involved... Those are fighting words..
Amanda my friend called me this morning and wants the kids to come over in 2 weekends... I am just not sure... The drama is just too much!! and my kids really do not need to be exposed to all the crap.... I have to go with my gut.. and my mother instincts!!
Well.. thanks all.. hope everyone is well... I am getting better..and stronger.. do not worry about me!!
Hugs.. and hopefully.. my next post... will be dull and boring.. hahah.. and many sketches!!
I feel like I am in a soap opera!! the drama has got to stop for everyones sake!!